Sample of sex chats conversation
To get her to open up in this way she first needs to feel safe doing so.
And the way to help her feel safe is to open up and share your own fantasies and desires first — thereby paving the way for her to join you.
Don’t let the possibility of miscalculating deter you.
By going first and sharing your own sexual fantasies and desires, you show it’s safe for her to do the same. As we’ve said, there may be occasions when the girl isn’t really into what you’re saying and may even become upset by it. Recovering from a miscalculation like this is easy.
To help you take those risks, keep in mind that it’s perfectly acceptable to make mistakes.
You may say something now and then that doesn’t land well (I discuss how to recover from that below).
If she texts you something like “Want to go to a show at 6? And while flirting is great, at a certain point you’ll have to dive in and really own and express your sexual desires.
When the moment is right — and you’ll know when you can cross this exciting line — you can and should tell her what you’re thinking, feeling, and wanting.